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Wigan, Greater Manchester U.K. & Internationally Online
You may find yourself in familiar cycles—drawn to the same dynamics in relationships, within your family, or even in how you relate to yourself—reaching similar endings and wondering why things don’t seem to change.
Part of you longs for connection—and another part feels unsure, guarded, or overwhelmed by it. Closeness can feel difficult to stay with, even when it’s what you want.
You might notice: overthinking, heightened emotion, or a sense of instability in relationships. Not because you are “too much”—but because something in you is
responding automatically.
Part of you may find it hard to express your needs, set boundaries, or stay present when emotions rise. Over time, this can leave you feeling unseen—or disconnected from yourself within relationships.
For some, it feels less intense—and more distant. A sense of disconnection from yourself, your feelings, or the people around you.
Getting close… then pulling away. Wanting connection… then feeling unsure. These patterns can feel confusing and exhausting. Often, they reflect something deeper
—not something you are choosing.
Many of these patterns are shaped by earlier experiences of connection. Experiences that were inconsistent, overwhelming, or unsafe can leave a lasting imprint. Not just in how you think—but in how you feel and respond.
There can be a quiet sense of: “I thought this part of my life would feel different by now.” A sense of being stuck, or unsure how to move forward in relationships.
